Trust between partners is a forceful foundation for hardcore play. Without it, the physical pressure can quickly turn from pleasure to pain. There is nothing rough or forceful at the beginning, until the partners have fully agreed upon it. “Don’t assume you know what the other person wants or likes in bed. Simple hand signals like “stop” or “slow” or clear, safe words will help guide the brief moment safely. If you feel any pain that is sharp, wrong, or uncomfortable, you must stop the actions immediately. Often, those who want to watch partners safely perform this intense balancing act…
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